We may or may not have a budget by the end of today, the last day of the fiscal year for the government.
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Monday, June 29, 2009
Friday, June 26, 2009
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
The Dad Man
Joe Kelly writes extensively about relationships between Dads and Daughters.
He wrote this book which became important to me as an adult when I explored how to create a better relationship with my internalized father. This is all in the spirit of self parenting.
My dad was a typesetter, in the days when when newspaper content wasn't created by computers. This was his typewriter, the forbidden tool only he could touch. It is a treasure I kept now that he is gone. Grasshopper is particularly fond of it. Grandpa would have been proud yet frantically worried about his prized possession...
It's mine now Dad...!
It's mine now Dad...!
Monday, June 22, 2009
To the Science Center
Off to see the Lego exhibit...
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Friday, June 19, 2009
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
St. Augustine
Hope has two beautiful daughters; their names are anger and courage. Anger at the way things are, and courage to see that they do not remain as they are.
- St. Augustine
- St. Augustine
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Communities by deliberate design
M. Scott Peck believes that communities can be created starting with the basic principal of communication. Platitudes and generalizations need to be challenged. Individual differences must be allowed.
I am having so much fun reading this book.
Tuesday, June 09, 2009
In genuine community
Here's more from the chapter The True Meaning of Community from M. Scott Peck's book "The Different Drum, Community Making and Peace":
"In genuine community there are no sides. It is not always easy, but by the time they reach community the members have learned how to give up cliques and factions. They have learned how to listen to each other and how not to reject each other.
Sometimes concensus in community is reached with miraculous rapidity. But other times it is arrived at only lengthy struggle. Just because it is a safe place does not mean community is a place without conflict. It is however a place where conflict can be resolved without physical or emotional bloodshed and with wisdom as well as grace. A community is a group that can fight gracefully.
That this is so so is hardly accidental. For community is an amphitheater where the gladiators have laid down their weapons and their armor, where they have become skilled at listening and understanding, where they respect each others' gifts and accept each others' limitations, where they are committed to a struggling together rather than against each other. It is a most unusual battleground indeed. But that is also why it is an unusually effective ground for conflict resolution."
Sunday, June 07, 2009
Your whole and holy self
I am a book aficionado. I dream of a home library where minds meet to read and discuss books.
I was looking through a shelf recently and came across M. Scott Peck's " The Different Drum, Community Making and Peace". I have many books that have not been read. This was one of them. It looks like this was the right stage in my life to read it. I am so ready to understand the concepts he discusses that I have been soaking it all in.
This passage is striking:
"Paradoxically, then, a group of humans becomes healing and converting only after its member have stopped trying to heal and convert. Community is a safe place precisely because no one is trying to heal or convert you, to fix you, to change you, Instead, the members accept you as you are, You are free to be you. And being so free, you are free to discard defenses, masks, disguises; free to seek your own psychological and spiritual health; free to become your whole and holy self."
Saturday, June 06, 2009
Friday, June 05, 2009
Tuesday, June 02, 2009
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